This is my story...
hi people, this is the 401 post in this awesome blog
ok, i realised theres indeed so much SO MUCH to blog abt and yet when i come here and start typing, my mind just goes blank
let me just start to share from morning :)
I slept at 2am ytd as had lots of work to do and also got to assign work for my grp members
woke up at 8am zzz
went to this special building in NP
didnt went there before and it was the Understanding Relationship module
woah, this module is really worth more than 4 hrs
today, we learnt like what are the expectations for guys in girls and for girls in guys, what girls dont understand abt guys, what are the factors that might influence a r/s, whats a healthy r/s, what guys and girls look for and ALOT!
oh wells, so much to talk abt this lesson
first activity we did was to draw a symbol or drawing that represent ourselves on a folded paper
i thought of kiwi, lollipop, choir sign, dancing angel but felt that all these were in the past, its history alr
i want smth special and unique
thought of heart but its nothing special
and suddenly, a click in my mind and i took my pen and drew on the paper
PEACE!!!!! yes peace! how can i not include this special sign in my life? haha
and happened that zipeng also drew peace -.- but he drew wrongly hahaha, so i can say that he copied me haha
we got a shocked like how come so coincidental and so he changed his drawing :P
next page, we got to write 3 qualities about ourselves
i thought again, haiyo, why this? i suck at writing all these, i scared if i write smth den like so proud and arrogant, not humble alr
but still got to write and sooooooo.............
I CRAPPED!!
i thought of peaceful, cheerful and awesome
AND happened that zipeng also thought of awesome!
he quickly wrote it down before i say he copy me and den he said to me that i copied him -.-
so i changed it to Awesomely Awesome!
HEHE:P
cool right?
next activity, the teacher assigned us to random ppl
as a girl, i got chosen to meet and talk to 3 guys for 3 minutes SEPARATELY
SO AWKWARD!!!!!!
the teacher even wrote topics on the board in case we are out of topics to talk to each other OMG
HAHA
first guy i met, his name was OMG, I FORGOT! erm, oh no haha
kk, if i am not wrong, his name is zhong chun or smth ahhhhh
den we kept saying AWKWARD AWKWARD!! and laughed
and he wrote on my paper that i am friendly
second guy i met was an indian, i was a little scared
his name is Zia.. cool~
teacher told us to share our biggest fear or the most embarassing thing in our life
he was an easy going person to talk to, no stress at all
he said his fear was to take the lift as he got stuck there once
i said i am scared of insects, he replied "thats common for girls" -.- hehe
den he also replied " den you must hate me alot"
i asked "why"
and he said ........ (OMG OMG OMG)
HE SAID HE LOVES BUTTERFLIES!!!! SO DO I!
den i said " oh oh, i mean i hate insects but i love butterflies"
den he HAHA "butterflies are insects" and i also saw his paper, he drew this butterfly to represent himself, sigh, why didnt i thought of butterfly as well and decorate its wings with the PEACE SIGN!
he wrote on my paper saying that i have a nice way to talk to, smth like social yeah, cant rmbr
next guy i met was weiliang
he injured his leg
teacher told us to share the most romantic or distrastrous experience
erm, well, even if i have, i wont share.. haha
he didnt dare to share as well and so we just talk and find him quite a funny guy
he wrote on my paper saying that i was cheerful and friendly person
woah finally someone says that i am cheerful!
i like ppl who feels that i am cheerful or joyful or forever and always happy
becos no offense, i feel that this describes me
after that,
teacher begin to teach and also asked us how we feel treating different genders differently
like knowing their fav food or allergies
cooking for them blah blah blah
and there were students kept interrupting with their ans
and from there, i could tell they were experienced ppl HAHA
AIYO~!
after break, next activity:
we splitted in grps of girls and guys, there were only 4 girls and the rest were guys
i think altgt theres 20 plus ppl in class.. sigh
we were assigned to write and draw what we girls want and expect from a guy
and so happily, we all 4 got the same thinking haha
and vice versa~
den the teacher will take our paper and share with the class
i was quite disappointed when the results were announced
indeed, guys care more of the body and appearance while girls care more abt the inner character
in my class, the result was girls want guys who are able to make or grow them up, bringing them up not bringing them down, which also means, the guy got to be more mature than the girl
while the guys want girls to be more caring but not too sensitive, PRETTY HOT SEXY -.-
but i find my class very noisy at the same time and teacher couldnt continue lesson :(
and therefore we missed out alot of information abt this module
next week, we will be watching a video and have to write a report abt it
yup yup!!
well at least this is much better than the idea blueprint
but i wished Understanding r/s module will be the one in the afternoon so that my day maybe better
i am feeling so tired~
i love this module, so interesting and so true
hehe, one thing we learnt today and want you readers to ponder abt:
what do guys mean when they say "nothing"?
for example, "talking on the phone"...
girl : hey what are you doing?
guy: er... nothing
GIRLS:
A) are you thinking abt other girls?
B) why everytime i ask you what you doing always say nothing? are you hiding smth from me?
C) really? not lying? i dont believe! tell me la, it cant be possible that you are doing nothing. can you stop it and tell me what are you doing?
... hmmm... some of these points may sound familiar?? or there may be other responses as well.. haha
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going to get my leopard boots tmr instead as the person forgot abt it today
haha
facial was long enough for me to sleep
eye lashes :O:O:O
cant wait for saturday!
kk people jy ok?
i will jy too, tmr is netball and i am going to smile!
stay positive!
gtg do work now
bye
goodnight in adavance, sleeping early after this
ciao~
-peaceful, cheerful, awesomely awesome girl!